how to seduce a boy by Iele Aleksandra

 

lele Aleksandra our correspondent from Romania

Every boy is different in his way but everyone wants to have a girl just for him.

Girls know that some long lashes, a sweet smile and a bit of grace can make a boy fall in love, but it is not always the case.

I think that the greatest love stars from friendship.

True love is the one when a boy feels for you seeing you in your pj’s with your hair uncombed, no make up on laughing out loud like crazy. Not the one which develops when someone see you when you look perfect. If a boy see whole truth about you and love it that is a true love.

To seduce a boy you don’t have to be the prettiest girl in the school or neighborhood. You have to be simply you.

To win the boy heart you have to first become his friend.

You should get his attention and next show him your beautiful soul. That includes:

to show how much you care about him (listening, caring),

to show him that you are there for him when he needs your help,

finally which is very important to show that you are a funny girl who laugh at his jokes so he would like to spent the time with you.

Of course, it is a bit hard to help him because boys talk to other boys if they have a problem which is not fair.  However not all boys are the same. So my advice is if you have the chance to show him some empathy – do not waste it. Even he see you just as a friend, he will see what he have and I am sure that he will realize who is worth his attention. So be patient and don’t lose hope.

Here is very important thing If you know that the boy likes you it’s much easier. You have just to be nice with him, make him feel special but… not too much! Let him come after you, let him want you. If you gave him everything from the beginning he will get bored and will think that you are an “easy” girl. “Easy” girl is not something you wish to be in long term. So be close with a bit of distance, but not too much, you don’t want him to think that you are untouchable, right? You know what I mean.

Sounds a bit complicated I know but it is not at all. It is quite simple. Actually it is very simply. Listen – it is a game of charm. You allow but at the same moment you are completely in charge and you star whole ship in right direction. So it will be love and great future, fun, amazing energy and responsible, steady relationship. You have to understand that this is a game but you can’t be a “player”. You are not the one. You are not a “player” and there is not game whatsoever. Just life… Simple as that.

After all if you two have the chemistry, everything will come naturally and every word, every touch and every smile will bring you more close.

And never underestimate this one:

When he looks in your eyes… let him see the sparkle of love, smile to him as much as you can, boys love to see a warm smile, to feel that are loved.

Nevertheless, honestly – the foundation for great relationship is:  be always true with him, no lies and no reasons for jealousy.

On other side remember don’t tell him… like everything, have your secrets, have your independent world so he will be always curios what is there.

You can’t be crazy jealous also or make him feel like that. But always make sure that he has in his possession the best treasure in the whole universe. (Besides don’t make him feel that you are his property – but always make him sure that you are completely his).

Jealous is a terrible bug so make sure it will have no place in your relationship. However, you have to know as well that if you will find out that he is not jealous about you that is bad as bad as could be… And if you will see something strange on his side you should deal with it right the way and accordingly!

Understand but don’t forget.

Understand him when he has a bad day but don’t forget how he made you feel when he pushed you away and stuff like that, after all it is not your fault but not every day is great.

As we know, whenever we are we need to know and learn the rules of the game so we can try to be the best player. In this game there is no game and no rules but everyone play it and have to obey them. I think that is quite clear.

So basically make him remember you, make him think about you all the time in your ways. Be the best he ever seen but… please be absolutely sure that you really want him. It is a bad thing to play with someone feelings. It’s just cruel and bad to break a heart and is very hard to make him let you be alone again after that.

So my dears that’s what I think. I don’t know much about boys but that is what I know about humans. Humans search for kindness and warmth, so give that and you will receive the same. After all boys are humans even sometimes is hard to believe that.

Be positive, everything will be good in the end, if it is not good then it is not the end.

Peace and love. Alexandra.

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